How To Get My Ex Back
“I want to know how to get my ex back,” was the remark from Rachael a waitress from uptown San Diego. Before I could answer Rachael’s question, I had to probe into her motives as to what her true desires were. I asked Rachael the reason why her husband of just two years left in the first place? 
This question is important because it tells me who to blame for the break up ; her or her husband. Most people are not in touch with what’s really going on in their relationships in fact the majority of people who file for divorce say they didn’t think there was a threatening problem just six months prior to breaking up.
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Rachael told me her husband left because he did not love her anymore. I asked her why and she said that he felt she was distancing herself from their relationship. Needless to say that I did not seek further light from it knowing that her desire on how to get my ex back was basically a lack of commitment on her part, but then her partner was not without fault for just walking out on her either.
Genuine love is volitional rather than emotional. The person who truly loves, does so because of a decision to love. This person has made a commitment to be loving, whether or not the loving feeling is present. Scott Peck said that, “of all the misconceptions about love, the most powerful and pervasive is the belief that ‘falling in love’ is love or at least one of the manifestations of love.”
It is a known fact that people who are married or in a committed relationship are healthier, wealthier, and happier. It is one of the major ingredients in life-long success for men and women. So it seems quite logical to be engaged in a healthy relationship. How to get my ex back is a question often asked of me but it is a rhetorical question because the answer is reversed with a question.
The answers to these questions are plentiful, but the core reason is simple. You ask me how to get my ex back but how committed are you to achieve your desire? It is easy to “fall” in love, but very few people know how to stay in love even though staying in love is the smartest choice all the way around. It takes work, dedication and a desire to take your relationship to the next level.
I reminded Rachael how important this dedication is because it lengthens life, substantially boosts physical and emotional health and raises income over that of single or divorced people or even those who live together. A healthy relationship also boosts happiness, reduces the degree of depression, and provides protection from sexually transmitted diseases. So my obvious response to her question; how to get my ex back was; tell him how committed you are in seeing this relationship mended and that you are willing to go the extra mile to make it happen. So let’s wake up and make up and turn this around. For your $10 bonus please email us.
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